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bratatouille


So… am I allowed to say this? I’m a little worried that Holden is getting bratty. She’s entering that screeching phase where she emits this high-pitched horrible noise when she is displeased with something. Which is apparently all the time.

I purposefully threw my Nuk onto the floor and I wish it was in my mouth!

You locked up all the bleach and chemicals!

I want you to pick me up!

I changed my mind, put me down!

You told me “no” when I looked you directly in the eyes and deliberately continued to throw pieces of food onto the floor!

You made me stop banging my head against the fireplace!

I prefer to wear a dirty diaper!

You put your boob away even though I was clearly finished nursing and just wanted to play with it!

You won’t let me play in Sally’s water bowl!

You made me stop eating mulch and dirt!

 
This is a whole new territory for me and I’m pretty sure I don’t like it. Firstly, it is so tough to relinquish control over her upbringing when I go to work every day. I am very lucky that my parents watch Holden for me, and I obviously know that they can raise a fantastic woman (ahem!), but… I am starting to struggle with the whole situation.

You can do all the online research and click on those “Raise a respectful child” Pins you want, but when you’re in the moment and realize your life is being run by an 18-lb. tyrant, it’s humbling to say the least. Especially when she thinks “no” is a fun game we’re playing.

Anyway, this is apparently where things are going now. Any tips or advice for me?

3 responses to “bratatouille”

  1. Amy Avatar
    Amy

    We try to say “no” only when necessary. “No, you cannot play with the scissors.” When the kid wants something he shouldn’t have or wants to do something he shouldn’t do, I try to distract him with something else. If he wants a snack 10 minutes before dinner, I go play cars with him and he forgets about the snack. You have to trick them. They are damn smart. Good luck and god speed.

    1. ohbothermeg Avatar
      ohbothermeg

      Thanks, Amy! Yeah, I’m reading all these new rules about using “no” sparingly; not saying “good job” all the time. It’s all strategy, haha! Good to know I’m not alone…

  2. oh, bother.: the ornery ones Avatar

    […] just yet—or any words for that matter—though I have witnessed a head shake in action. I questioned whether Holden was getting bratty about a month ago, but we’re in a whole new territory […]

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